Many people think that closeness is measured by physical proximity or shared space. They believe that sleeping in the same bed or living in the same house with someone automatically makes them close to that person. But is that really true? I don't think so. I think closeness is much more than that. Closeness is about emotional intimacy and connection. It's about being able to be yourself with someone, without fear of judgment or rejection. It's about feeling seen, heard, and understood by someone who cares for you. It's about being able to share your deepest thoughts and feelings, your hopes and fears, your joys and sorrows, with someone who supports you. It's about being able to show your vulnerability and strength, your darkness and light, to someone who accepts you. \Closeness is not something that happens overnight. It takes time, effort, and trust to build. It requires honesty, communication, and respect. It involves giving and receiving, listening and speaking...
You can fake your way through your 20s and thirties. because you are young and life is exciting. However, eventually, you will have to face the consequences of not putting in the effort and hard work required to achieve your goals. It's important to start building a solid foundation for your future early on. Charming your way through the 20s You can make good money, and that can be a motivating factor, but what happens is that when you are less engaged in your work, you are not connected deeply, you are bored, and you are not paying deep attention. Therefore, it is crucial to find work that aligns with your passions and interests and invest time in developing the necessary skills and knowledge to excel in that field. This will not only lead to a fulfilling career but also financial stability in the long run. And you are, in a way, skating by, charming your way through life. It catches up with you. When you are in your late 30s, it starts to catch up with you. And p...